Today psychologists say that in most cases family happiness collapses not due to unfaithfulness or new love. It happens because husband and wife don't want to listen and understand each other. Myth 1. Each person in family should have own responsibilities. It is very popular opinion, especially, among the men ' husband has to earn money for family and wife has to look after children and house. But sometimes life gives us surprises, and from time to time surprises are not so good. One day husband can lose his job, and wife can be main money getter in family, and the husband turns to housekeeping. That's why if you want to save your family you have to be flexible in different situations. Myth 2. In family no one has secrets As a matter of fact, it's very fishily that such openness is the pledge of happiness in family. Because all people differently reveal their openness. Some people are very undisguised and honest, but some people aren't able to be very open even with close people. Myth 3. Loving people do everything together That very prevalent myth was invented by women, who sincerely believe if men will take active part in social life of their families, they will achieve harmony. Of course, there are such families, where both husband and wife have same interests and hobbies, and it's very natural for them to organize some excursions, hikes, visits to the theatres, football matches. But even in this case each person should have his own space not only for family, but for hobby or friends. Myth 4. When people are really happy, family becomes their only interest. Maybe, some women like taking care for the house, bringing up children and communicating with husband. But you shouldn't expect the same zeal from your husband. Because there are friends, job, hobby besides family. If you will content yourself only with housekeeping, you take chances to become uninteresting person for your husband. Also you strip yourself of many pleasant things.