Read the first part of the article 'Dos and Don'ts of Family Relationship Part I'.
Tip 6: Don't be pain in the neck. If your husband promises to repair a faucet and a flush tank for a week or a couple of month, don't nag at him. It isn't worth the effort. He will certainly do it some day. Then what's the reason for you to be nervous? Take it easy. Don't worry, be happy!
Tip 7: If you don't like how he does something, do it yourself. If your husband is going to hammer a nail, leave the room and don't trouble him with your advice. If he washes up, be quiet as a lamb because he can recollect that it's not a male job. Never say ‘Leave it, I'll do it better than you!' You can redo it later when nobody sees it if you don't like something.
Tip 8: Don't manipulate. For example, don't say that you will leave him every time you have a quarrel because one day he will say ‘Nobody is stopping you!'
Tip 9: Don't stoop to insult him or his relatives. The offense can be stuck in his mind for long or forever.
Tip 10: If your husband wants to make love to you, don't turn him down. It's an important part of married life. If you have health problems, talk to your husband and consult a doctor. If you just don't feel satisfaction while making love, read the proper literature on this subject or consult a sexologist.
Don't use sex for manipulation to put pressure on him or to get concessions. In the end it always fails.
Tip 11: Don't abase yourself and your husband by suspiciousness. A great number of jealous women just poison their halves existence. They are able to jostle on the sly, check his SMS's, try a password for e-mail, etc. And even if they didn't dig some dirt up on their husbands, there are still nagging doubts in their mind. ‘Maybe I just can't find it out...?!' It can happen after cooling down of a relationship caused by disregarding of rules 1-10.
Tip 12: Any problem can be solved, if you talk to your husband about it. It works in 90% cases. If it doesn't work, there are two exceptions to the rules.
exception 1: If you can't change the situation, change your attitude. For example, your husband throws about his dirty socks, leaves dishes, puts off repairing of things, etc. All this makes you angry. But you know, everybody has shortcomings and you are not an exception. Shut your eyes to his minor faults. He has significant virtues for sure if you are still together.
exception 2: If you can't change your attitude to the situation, don't be afraid of divorce. Sometimes it's the only way out. There's no sense to spoil each other's lives, fray his and your nerves, put a brave face on a sorry business and to pretend on public that everything is ok. Do all your best to save your family. But if the relationship is damaged, it couldn't be worse. Let go your husband in peace. Maybe both of you will find true love some day.
Dos and Don'ts of Family Relationship Part II
Read the first part of the article 'Dos and Don'ts of Family Relationship Part I'.
Tip 6: Don't be pain in the neck. If your husband promises to repair a faucet and a flush tank for a week or a couple of month, don't nag at him. It isn't worth the effort. He will certainly do it some day. Then what's the reason for you to be nervous? Take it easy. Don't worry, be happy!
Tip 7: If you don't like how he does something, do it yourself. If your husband is going to hammer a nail, leave the room and don't trouble him with your advice. If he washes up, be quiet as a lamb because he can recollect that it's not a male job. Never say ‘Leave it, I'll do it better than you!' You can redo it later when nobody sees it if you don't like something.
Tip 8: Don't manipulate. For example, don't say that you will leave him every time you have a quarrel because one day he will say ‘Nobody is stopping you!'
Tip 9: Don't stoop to insult him or his relatives. The offense can be stuck in his mind for long or forever.
Tip 10: If your husband wants to make love to you, don't turn him down. It's an important part of married life. If you have health problems, talk to your husband and consult a doctor. If you just don't feel satisfaction while making love, read the proper literature on this subject or consult a sexologist.
Don't use sex for manipulation to put pressure on him or to get concessions. In the end it always fails.
Tip 11: Don't abase yourself and your husband by suspiciousness. A great number of jealous women just poison their halves existence. They are able to jostle on the sly, check his SMS's, try a password for e-mail, etc. And even if they didn't dig some dirt up on their husbands, there are still nagging doubts in their mind. ‘Maybe I just can't find it out...?!' It can happen after cooling down of a relationship caused by disregarding of rules 1-10.
Tip 12: Any problem can be solved, if you talk to your husband about it. It works in 90% cases. If it doesn't work, there are two exceptions to the rules.
exception 1: If you can't change the situation, change your attitude. For example, your husband throws about his dirty socks, leaves dishes, puts off repairing of things, etc. All this makes you angry. But you know, everybody has shortcomings and you are not an exception. Shut your eyes to his minor faults. He has significant virtues for sure if you are still together.
exception 2: If you can't change your attitude to the situation, don't be afraid of divorce. Sometimes it's the only way out. There's no sense to spoil each other's lives, fray his and your nerves, put a brave face on a sorry business and to pretend on public that everything is ok. Do all your best to save your family. But if the relationship is damaged, it couldn't be worse. Let go your husband in peace. Maybe both of you will find true love some day.
